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Yes, I agree, I like and prefer politeness, but it doesn’t feel that good to me when it’s something like
  • “Hi, how are you? What would you like to order?”
  • “A pizza. By the way I’m good! Thanks for asking, what about you?”
  • “Coming right up, next?”
Like you asked about my day, what about yours???
Maybe also a cultural difference, here if you ask about someone’s day they would reply politely but they’d also probably think that you should mind your own business.