Very generous of you to still assume an intellectually coherent base for the statement

Undisciplined

Funny. I internalized "Asian country", not "Japanese country" when I read your post.

Hmm, my next absurd guess then would be "Italy" in relation to the 

 during WWII. In case your relative is somehow mentally stuck in old history...

AskSN

One of those Japanese countries

Funny. I internalized "Asian country", not "Japanese country" when I read your post.

Probably says something about me.

Hmm, my next absurd guess then would be "Italy" in relation to the [Tripartite Pact](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tripartite_Pact) during WWII. In case your relative is somehow mentally stuck in old history...