i feel like I should feel naked, and possibly even blind without it, but until now i have just made different wallets and named them to keep track, but i dont think that's quite the same thing

I can't speak to "most" (ask somebody who routinely uses more than the ~2-3 hww I've ever used), but it's a feature I feel pretty naked/blind without

denlillaapan

Seeing the utxos would be classed as coin control, right?  is that now a common feature on most hardware wallets?