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As a mom, I do not feel limited by what I can and cannot do bc of my little one. Yes I have less time but they grow quickly and become more independent.
My wants have changed, now I want to do activities that he enjoys like playing music, swimming, or going to the beach.
I have traveled slightly since becoming a mom but the trips and places visited have been even more cool and fun. We stay longer and it takes more thought and care to pack. Where I might have decided on a quick trip before, now I am more thoughtful in my travel plans. ✈️
Regarding the focus change, think of it as your focus expands. 🌱
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I don't think kids (I have three) have stopped me from seeing or doing things I want to do or see.
no question they take up time and alter your focus, but for me at least, I discovered that it made me be more ruthless with how I prioritized my goals.
besides, it's a lot of fun to bring them along to all the things you want to do and see.
no question they take up time and alter your focus, but for me at least, I discovered that it made me be more ruthless with how I prioritized my goals.
idk is it the same as a mum VS as a dad. 👀
besides, it's a lot of fun to bring them along to all the things you want to do and see.
perhaps.
my wife worked for the last ten years and I was the primary caregiver for the kids. the burden of babies certainly falls more heavily on women than men (eg breastfeeding, the way pregnancy totally alters your body), but once you get past the first 6 months, it can be fairly equal. A lot depends on your partner and how they approach parenting.
Have kids even earlier