Should be doable with lncli wallet bumpfee on your umbrel node. It can do both RBF and CPFP. The argument is <tx_you_want_to_bump>:<change output number> of your tx (if doing CPFP), not sure how to do RBF. This assumes there is a change output, you could have sent the whole output to Blixt wallet, then you would need to do CPFP on Blixt side.
Note about RBF: it should not be necessary to have it enabled in your tx - see mempoolfullrbf=1 option of Bitcoin Core. For example my node has this enabled, so would accept replace by fee on any tx. More famous example: Peter Todd's node. There was entire war about this, it surprises me someone hasn't heard of it. :)
I tried this.
umbrel
So I added --sat_per_vbyte 200 And I see no tx output
umbrel
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Both transactions have been confirmed and my channel is being opened in Blixt. Thanks!
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I see the transaction in my mempool now. I rebooted my umbrel. My original tx was not showing up so I'm guessing there was an issue with my mempool.
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