I know that's also part of their familiar way of parenting from their own parents, so I don't know how to solve this problem, and it's causing mental conflicts.

I was a rebel too! More like just thinking for myself instead of following the BS; I started making my own money from young too, I even worked as a freelance translator to practice my English during school time, I like learning in the wild 🤣 and almost couldn't graduate from uni because I didn't want to waste time writing that stupid paper.!