(I think) I finally understand DarthCoin \ stacker news ~bitcoin

(I think) I finally understand DarthCoin

8358 sats \ 114 comments \ @ek 12 Dec 2023 bitcoin

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Similar to how @siggy47 gets why bitcoiners like bear markets now, I think I finally can start to grasph why @DarthCoin is being so toxic all the time. Prepare yourself for a very long and hopefully funny story :)

Almost exactly one month ago, my girlfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me.

Almost, because it was on November 11, not November 12. What a convenient date to remember: 11/11 :)

I have asked myself a lot if I should share this on SN. This is (obviously) a very personal topic for me and I do care about my online privacy which is also why I have started to use the delete feature more but I think this might actually resonate with some people on here. Or make some people reconsider how they see @DarthCoin. Also, I notice how I can't really focus as much as I would like to anymore because something is boiling inside of me. I am literally walking around faster and I have to hold myself back to not push people over because they are walking too slow for me. I am trying to not scream at the cashiers when they do not say "have a nice day" back to me. I consistently have to take a breath before I respond to some people on here or in other places to make sure I am not going to lash out on accident for something so irrelevant, I might look like a bad person to interact with and not like the person I want to be. I can't even hold myself back to call out @ODELL for something I don't like even though I never met him thus don't know him, never read much about what he is doing in this space, what is important to him and so on. I literally have no idea who he is in some way. And most important, I have no idea why he is even using ALL CAPS. I can of course only speculate, lol :)

I know I am in a bad emotional state right now.

But at least I know. I also know that lashing out is almost never the solution to anything. It DOES NOT help with fixing ANY situation, it only makes it worse. However, only ALMOST NEVER. This is what this post is going to be about. This post is about how toxicity is the red pill for bitcoiners or how toxicity is brutal honesty.

Is there ever a time and place to be toxic? To be as toxic as you can be? To scream at the top of your lungs at someone to make them finally understand that you're being <censored> serious? That it's not you who is crazy but them? Even though the definition of crazy is usually

If you think everyone around you is crazy... you might be the crazy one.

Because they just can not understand that what you are trying to tell them is a very serious topic for you? So they should stop making jokes about it? Since you're also not joking for once? Like for once in your <censored> life, you are not trying to make jokes so people that have known you for so <censored> many years, they might actually take you serious for once? ...

Anyway, we will try to answer this question in this post. :)

For an example when I need to take a breath before replying, see this comment:

We can integrate the Chess part on SN too and use your prediction market when people play

@brave, I hope you can forgive me for mentioning you but you are just the latest best example, haha

Zap them like <censored> crazy since I have put them on a spotlight on here without asking them first because I just HAVE TO write this RIGHT <CENSORED> NOW. I am literally afraid my newfound toxicness is going to disappear before I am done writing this post because I think this can be part of my superpower.

I think my superpower is:

convert bad energy into code

The problem with that superpower for now is just: that code isn't good, if it even exists. It's very hard to focus during programming if you have so many things going on in your mind at the same time. But this is also why I am writing this, to at least get something like 1% of these things out of my system.

Also, you, @brave, seemed to understand that I was trying to make you understand in a "funny but toxic but funny" way how ridiculous this request was. Again, I do not intend to be rude (at least I sure hope so). I just want to help people understand some things without completely <censored> censoring myself when I am trying to.

I also gave @brave 1000 sats because I was so happy he realized that I didn't mean to be rude, I just wanted to call out the audacity to even ask for something like this, and I did have a good laugh reading his reply:

LOL, I'm not which is what gave me the audacity to even think so

So, why did I start with my recent breakup? To keep it short (and not AS <CENSORED> TOXIC AS IT COULD BE):

Our relationship started with me being scared that it might not work out in the long run because I know myself too well. I like to be alone way too much sometimes :)

She said she understands and I also liked her. She seemed to really get me. So after some long discussions, including time that we had for ourselves to think about if we really want to do this, we thought: Why not just try it?

So we tried. Again, I am trying to keep this short, since I have stuff to do, lol. But disclaimer: I know this is only my side of the story. Don't trust me that I am not making stuff up here. Like some stories based on real events are also not completely true :)

In something like the last 3 months before she broke up with me, I felt like something was wrong. I kept asking her

I feel like something is wrong, I think you don't like me anymore. We keep visiting each other during the weekends, but I don't think you actually want to. What is going on? I am really worried about you."

She kept insisting that either a) nothing is wrong or b) it has nothing to do with me.

Oh, what kind of foreshadowing is this? :)

Well, when she broke up (she didn't even start the discussion) it obviously had a lot to do with me.

The funny part is, we were sitting around again as we used to do, having a good talk and laughing about dumb stuff. That's also why I liked her so much. You could talk to her about so many things. Just not about everything.

Or at least it seemed to be a good talk as usual. When I noticed again (FOR THE I DON'T KNOW I <CENSORED> LOST COUNT) that something is off, I asked her again. She just started crying. I tried to calm her down. "It's okay.", I said. But internally, I thought:

I should have <censored> known. I should have <censored> known that even though we started our relationship with the premise that we're going to talk openly about every-<censored>-thing. We said we will try to block every <censored> Sunday so we can <censored> talk about anything we might not wanted to talk about during the week for whatever <censored> reason. That Sunday is going to be the day, we're 100% going to <censored> listen to each other to see how the other person is <censored> doing. I should have known that when I knew something was off, she wasn't telling me the truth. She was trying to avoid conflict but ... did she? DID SHE <CENSORED> AVOID CONFLICT? OR DID SHE LITERALLY JUST MAKE IT <CENSORED> WORSE THAN IT <CENSORED> HAD TO BE?

But I didn't fully internalize these thoughts yet. I think I kept pushing them off. I didn't want to think like this.

Well, we talked, we ate dinner for the last time, watched some episodes of the series that we started watching before we even got together (a new season came out). Then she left with us saying to each other we can meet again. I asked if I am still invited to the New Year's party with mostly her friends. She said she doesn't mind but the problem is if someone will actually plan something. Like where to go etc. She said she is happy how understanding I was and that I didn't make a drama out of this.

BUT WELL, WHAT ABOUT <CENSORED> YOU? DID YOU TRY TO NOT MAKE A <CENSORED> DRAMA OUT OF THIS?

Anyway. A week later, I wrote her, asking if she has time to go hiking. Since we literally said, we can still meet. We can still be friends (I guess A LOT OF YOU can relate to this).

Her answer after two days was:

Good morning :) Sorry for the late reply. I have been quite busy the past days. Nice idea! But all my free days from work for this and next month are already filled up with other stuff, sorry 🙈

She didn't write anything else. And most important, she didn't reply with:

HEY THANKS YOU <CENSORED> REACHED OUT TO ME EVEN THOUGH MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE BECAUSE I HAVE TREATED YOU LIKE A <CENSORED> <CENSORED> BECAUSE YOU KEPT ASKING FOR MONTHS WHAT THE <CENSORED> IS GOING ON AND THUS I SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT YOU ARE PRETTY <CENSORED> AWARE OF WHAT THE <CENSORED> IS GOING ON BUT YOU TRUSTED ME THAT I WOULD TELL YOU THE <CENSORED> TRUTH AND THUS YOU THOUGHT THAT YOU'RE JUST SEEING THINGS THAT AREN'T <CENSORED> THERE AND YOU SHOULD TRY TO CALM THE <CENSORED> DOWN BECAUSE WHY THE <CENSORED> WOULD SHE NOT TELL ME THE TRUTH?

But I only fully realized that she didn't reply like this recently. It's funny because I know, people say after a breakup you go through phases of denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance.

I think one day I just woke up and I thought:

WAIT A <CENSORED> MINUTE. WHY AM I FEELING SO <CENSORED> SAD? AS IF IT'S ALL MY <CENSORED> FAULT?

And I think then it was official: I entered the anger phase, lol :)

I actually don't know how long this post already is since I am writing it outside of SN since I am too <censored> afraid we might have a bug, we didn't implement this feature yet or my browser might crash or I don't <censored> know what life has planned next for me. But I am getting to my theory of why @DarthCoin is just so insufferable sometimes, soon, hang on :)

Then I started to talk to IRL friends about my breakup. That actually helped me and they were very understanding.

Then, they realized I don't have time to <CENSORED> MEET THEM ALL THE <CENSORED> TIME. Were they worried about me? Maybe. But I tried to tell them:

I AM DOING <CENSORED> FINE STOP <CENSORED> ASKING IF I HAVE <CENSORED> TIME WHENEVER YOU NOW <CENSORED> WANT TO MEET <CENSORED> <CENSORED> IS <CENSORED> WRONG WITH YOU <CENSORED> PEOPLE

Then I tried to explain to them why I think I am doing fine and I just want to have time for myself ... oh boy, this got extremely funny very fast.

They didn't take me serious when I tried to explain to them how important bitcoin is to me. They literally thought I was joking about all the things I said. I tried to have patience with them since I know how <censored> crazy or hard bitcoin is to understand.

But you know what?

AT LEAST TAKE ME <CENSORED> SERIOUS WHEN I AM TRYING TO LITERALLY TELL YOU HOW <CENSORED> SERIOUS I AM.

Long story short, I literally started to burn some very old bridges - more or less temporarily - because I just couldn't interact with them anymore.

THEY JUST DON'T <CENSORED> GET IT. THIS IS A <CENSORED> WASTE OF TIME.

However, I told them, depending on the amount of trust that I have in them finally <censored> understanding that I am being <censored> serious:

I don't want to talk to you anymore for X months / years.

Oh boy, this got even more funny even <censored> faster, haha!

THEY LITERALLY STARTED TO <CENSORED> TELL ME HOW I AM OVERREACTING AND I AM CRAZY AND I AM SUCH A BAD BAD PERSON THAT I AM BURNING BRIDGES BECAUSE THEY DON'T GET SOMETHING SO STUPID LIKE <CENSORED> BITCOIN.

I couldn't take this <censored> <censored> anymore. Then I started to become as toxic as I ever was in my <censored> life. If some stuff they said to me in person, I think I literally would have screamed until I would have passed out, lol. Just to get up and scream at them some more! But no, the very bad stuff was mostly over text.

Then I send every single <censored> one of them a very personal <censored> message how I think that actually, they might be wrong and that THEY are actually the <censored> <censored> because I LITERALLY TRIED TO EXPLAIN TO THEM BUT THEY JUST DON'T WANT TO TAKE IT <CENSORED> SERIOUS LIKE WHAT THE <CENSORED> IS WRONG WITH YOU <CENSORED> PEOPLE LIKE SERIOUSLY GIVE ME A <CENSORED> BREAK <CENSORED>! I AM BEING SO <CENSORED> TOXIC RIGHT NOW, I THINK I MIGHT ACTUALLY HAVE FIXED MY <CENSORED> SOCIAL ANXIETY <CENSORED> BECAUSE I JUST DON'T GIVE A <CENSORED> ABOUT PEOPLE WASTING MY <CENSORED> TIME ANYMORE

And then I realized ... wow, this might have indeed helped with some of them!

They were suddenly like

Oh, I am very sorry, I didn't know you are going through hard times. Are you sure you don't want to meet?

YES I AM <CENSORED> SURE BECAUSE YOU ARE LITERALLY WASTING MY <CENSORED> TIME AND YOU STILL DON'T <CENSORED> GET IT EVEN THOUGH I LITERALLY WROTE YOU THE MOST TOXIC MESSAGE I HAVE EVER WRITTEN IN MY <CENSORED> LIFE, TRYING AGAIN TO EXPLAIN FOR THE NTH TIME WHY I DON'T WANT TO <CENSORED> MEET YOU RIGHT NOW.

So to come to a final conclusion: If you think the only thing you have left is to be SO <CENSORED> TOXIC, <CENSORED> DO IT. IT MIGHT ACTUALLY MAKE A <CENSORED> DIFFERENCE.

And I think @DarthCoin has been in this space for so <censored> long, he lost patience with some people like I did in the span of a few weeks.

I mean, I know I have been active in this space for not even a year and I AM ALREADY SO <CENSORED> TOXIC TO PEOPLE WHO DON'T TAKE BITCOIN SERIOUS.

Imagine you've been in Bitcoin since 2012, it's been over 10 <censored> years and people still don't <censored> get it. WOULDN'T YOU BECOME VERY TOXIC YOURSELF?

Just ask yourself this. This could have been all I wanted to say with this post.

But I think @DarthCoin is sometimes just being toxic for the sake of being toxic and thus is so insufferable sometimes. I just searched for "insufferable" on here and this is the first comment that showed up:

You are easily one of the most insufferable people on this website. I found a selfie. -- #101165

But I actually wanted to find my own comment about @DarthCoin being insufferable, lol:

@DarthCoin never change even though you are really insufferable sometimes :) -- #344665

So the point of this story is: BE <CENSORED> TOXIC WHEN YOU HAVE TO, BUT BE <CENSORED> SMART ABOUT IT, NOT LIKE <CENSORED> @DarthCoin, BEING <CENSORED> TOXIC WHENEVER HE <CENSORED> CAN, EVEN ON TOPICS HE HAS SO <CENSORED> OBVIOUSLY NO <CENSORED> IDEA ABOUT, EVEN ADMITTING HE HAS NO FUCKING CLUE ABOUT CODE LOL!

And one last thing:

PLEASE DON'T <CENSORED> ASK ME HOW I AM DOING OR START DM'ING ME OR WHATEVER THE <CENSORED> YOU THINK MIGHT HELP ME. I JUST WANT TO <CENSORED> MOVE ON, I DID NOT REALLY WANT TO TALK ABOUT THIS HERE BUT I JUST REALIZED I MIGHT HAVE TO TO FINALLY BE ABLE TO <CENSORED> CODE AGAIN <CENSORED> AND COMMIT TO ME BEING FUCKING TOXIC BUT IN A HELPFUL WAY TO ANYONE WHO I THINK IS WASTING MY <CENSORED> TIME.

BUT IF YOU REALLY HAVE TO GIVE ME SOME ADVICE, DO IT BELOW THIS POST SO I CAN <CENSORED> IGNORE IT TO FINALLY <CENSORED> CODE AGAIN WITHOUT SO MANY <CENSORED> DISTRACTING THOUGHTS IN MY <CENSORED> HEAD <CENSORED>. I MIGHT NEVER REPLY TO ANY OF WHAT YOU ARE WRITING HERE SINCE I PROBABLY ALREADY <CENSORED> TRIED OR AM CURRENTLY TRYING OR ALREADY <CENSORED> KNOW. AND YES, I <CENSORED> KNOW I AM A VERY NICE PERSON SINCE I AM TRYING <CENSORED> HARD, PLEASE STOP WASTING MY <CENSORED> TIME AND YOURS AND ACTUALLY DO SOMETHING <CENSORED> USEFUL IN YOUR LIFE FOR ONCE

THANKS I NOW NEED TO DO SOME <CENSORED> BINARY STUFF IN <CENSORED> JAVASCRIPT LIKE WHAT THE <CENSORED>! JUST SO SOME <CENSORED> PEOPLE ON HERE CAN START <CENSORED> UPLOADING THEIR PICTURES WITHOUT IT GETTING <CENSORED> ROTATED FOR NO APPARENT <CENSORED> REASON

I THINK I AM <CENSORED> DONE NOW. I FEEL MUCH BETTER.

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12.6k sats \ 2 replies \ @TwoLargePizzas 13 Dec 2023

I'm an older guy (40+). Not as old as @DarthCoin but I do know how to code so I make up for it in other ways :)

The funny thing about being older and having more life experience is that you have a difference perspective. You see things a different way because you've already been there and done that.

Some might call it wisdom. It doesn't mean you're more intelligent or have more knowledge about a particular topic but it does tend to mean you see through more bullshit.

TOXIC is just a perception. Two different people can read the same thing and have different feelings about it. When I read something @DarthCoin wrote I don't always agree but I always try to consider why he's saying without dismissing it. I ask myself, what piece of the puzzle am I missing? I try to fill gaps in my knowledge by listening to people with more experience than I.

The other thing that happens when you get older is that you realize how much time people waste trying to be nice to each other. Your recent breakup is a perfect example of this. Sometimes people are too afraid to say what they really mean. They think hurting people's feelings matters more than telling the truth. But the alternative wasting people's precious time on this earth. Spending years in a toxic relationship is much worse than being toxic with words.

The reason breakups hurt is because your expectations didn't match up with reality. That's all. You spent 2 years trying to make it work and it didn't. That fucking sucks. But if something isn't working you've only got two choices, you can spend another 2 years trying to fix it or you can end it and move on with your life. It's never an easy choice.

Nevertheless, the choice has been made and now there's a new path forward. That's a good thing. See it as a new door opening and an opportunity to experience whatever life has to bring you next. It might not feel like it now but it's actually a pretty exciting pivot point that we only get to experience every so often.

31 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 13 Dec 2023

They think hurting people's feelings matters more than telling the truth. But the alternative wasting people's precious time on this earth. Spending years in a toxic relationship is much worse than being toxic with words.

Damn right! Well said sir!

21 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 13 Dec 2023

We might have a winner here

1531 sats \ 2 replies \ @orthwyrm 12 Dec 2023

This post is completely deranged and you'll read it 5 years from now and cringe, but I get it.

When I was younger, there was this girl I was super into. She didn't feel the same way and saw me as a "friend". We hung out every day. I was so "nice" to her and eagerly listened to all her problems. Of course I got nothing in return. She probably saw right through me and enjoyed the attention. It was honestly the most miserable period of my life and it turned me into a twisted, jealous, bitter goblin for a couple of years railing against the universe for being so unjust. Actually, I recall making a post just like this on some forum somewhere too.

The funny thing is that I can now look back on all that and laugh. Literally. She was completely wrong for me by every metric. I have no idea why the fuck my hormones went wild with that one, but they did. I think I might actually have been insane? I don't know. For all I care, that version of me has ceased to exist and might as well be an angry little alien on a planet far far away.

I am laughing at this post like I laugh at the old me, but in a good way if you get what I mean. I think you're a smart dude with a lot to offer. You're also young and kind of retarded. That's OK, you'll grow out of it. Just don't yourself too seriously and make yourself miserable like I did. We're all fallible.

72 sats \ 1 reply \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

This post have way more implications (mostly on ekzyis) that many stackers cannot even think about....

ekzyis started a new path in his life now. And I am glad he did it. After this, will be totally changed and will see the world with another eyes.

Let him be. The Force is strong with him now.

50 sats \ 0 replies \ @Natalia 12 Dec 2023

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1118 sats \ 15 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

wow, excellent post! I am glad you spit it out from yourself, from your interior. Sometimes speaking out loud is a relief even if you don't know it.

Some funny observations:

you were pissed off about @ODELL writing in CAPS and you end up also writing in CAPS 😂😂😂
why are you censoring yourself too much? Is much better to just say it FUCK then <censored>. really hard to read these censored text. barely can understand what you mean. Fucking hell stop censoring yourself, be yourself. Who doesn't like your words is THEIR problem not yours.
yes I know shit about coding, that's why I STFU when is about coding. I understand some technicalities (I was an IT guy for many years) but I simply don't know to write code. But that doesn't mean you don't know about Bitcoin. Is just a part of the Bitcoin. And that doesn't mean I know everything about Bitcoin. Every fucking day I learn something new.

And don't worry man... if you have Bitcoin you will have 100 virgins in your life (sorry I couldn't find the meme for that). This is a serious advice from an old guy 50+ that saw a lot in his life.

1336 sats \ 6 replies \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

you were pissed off about @ODELL writing in CAPS and you end up also writing in CAPS 😂😂😂

Yeah, I believe I had good reasons to use CAPS when I used them :) I can't stand reading a text with ALL CAPS LIKE THEY ARE FUCKING YELLING AT ME.

why are you censoring yourself too much? Is much better to just say it FUCK then <censored>. really hard to read these censored text. barely can understand what you mean. Fucking hell stop censoring yourself, be yourself. Who doesn't like your words is THEIR problem not yours.

I did that on purpose for comedy reasons and there might be some hidden meaning in there since I am talking about being brutally honest when you need to and yet I am censoring myself. I thought some might think this irony is funny :)

But that doesn't mean you don't know about Bitcoin.

I know did I ever say that? lol :)

685 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

I am glad I could use The Force (remotely) and gave you this strength to help you moving forward. These little things make me happy, you never imagine. Yes, I am asshole as many call me, I don't care, but at least inside them, I am changing them, little by little. And this is how we are making a better world, being an asshole.

465 sats \ 1 reply \ @siggy47 12 Dec 2023

It was funny

403 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

thanks, I know it was :) lol!

31 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

Nice then! A man with sense of humor will live more than others.

255 sats \ 1 reply \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

Oh, I think I got the idea to do this whole censoring thing when I wrote the following sentence:

I just want to help people understand some things without completely <censored> censoring myself when I am trying to.

@DarthCoin, seems like you didn't see what I did there :)

I am censoring myself because you can't handle my toxicness :)

485 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

21 sats \ 7 replies \ @nemo 12 Dec 2023

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77 sats \ 6 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

was a meme but can't find it now with a guy and many girls... and all they want was him because he had BTC.

1945 sats \ 5 replies \ @0xbitcoiner 12 Dec 2023

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10 sats \ 0 replies \ @0xbitcoiner 12 Dec 2023

I only pay for drinks in the stacker saloon. I'll be there soon to pay :)

21 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

now you are talking like a badass OG... 👍👍

11 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

exactly this Here is the full clip (for those that doesn't know it yet) https://www.bitchute.com/video/9qMzgKf91QeQ/

10 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

LOL this actually made me laugh

Funny because it's true :)

859 sats \ 3 replies \ @nemo 12 Dec 2023

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98 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

better to be angry and empowered than to jump off a bridge because you are ashamed of something

THIS is a very good advice!

As I always say... FUCK'EM'ALL

77 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

very good chart. I may save it. Will try to see where am I...

1642 sats \ 0 replies \ @02fa90fd41 13 Dec 2023

Wasn’t this posted before?

I think I’m done with Reddit style recycled karma farmer

892 sats \ 2 replies \ @davidw 12 Dec 2023

Came here to learn about Darth but ending-up understanding you better haha.

Know you don't want our pity but respect for boshing-out https://delphi.market/ whilst going through all that @ekzyis. Hope you can accept and find your mojo quickly. The world needs your talents, much more so than someone being there along for the ride. Stick to your skills and your principles, be yourself, and you’ll be rewarded. As Darth loves to say "smile, tomorrow will be worse". If you feel yourself becoming more toxic by the day, I imagine you will find some encouragement from that 😄

676 sats \ 1 reply \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

You see? He learnt more than you can imagine from The Force, now he's even using mind tricks in titles 😂😂😂

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Natalia 12 Dec 2023

😂😂

747 sats \ 12 replies \ @Natalia 12 Dec 2023

took me quite some time to read, the full capitals...

Almost exactly one month ago, my girlfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me.

was this the main reason that you felt bad recently? now it makes sense 🤔 and all I can say is be yourself, and the right one will come, have faith:)

I do think this relationship thing is complicated ( way complicated than Bitcoins!) I ask people sometimes how do they know this is the person they want spend their life with haha; curious, how do you know your wife is the one? @DarthCoin

1 sat \ 11 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

You were asking me? My actual wife / life partner, is not the choose one. As you know I do not believe in marriage, especially the traditional one with going and sign the papers at the town hall, priest etc all that bla bla. Is just a theater.

If two individuals want to live together they will just live and that's it. There's no need for license to be married, That is total bullshit.

0 sats \ 10 replies \ @Natalia 12 Dec 2023

My actual wife / life partner, is not the choose one.

what is this mean? 👀

As you know I do not believe in marriage, especially the traditional one with going and sign the papers at the town hall, priest etc all that bla bla. Is just a theater.

same, I would pass all these BS.

If two individuals want to live together they will just live and that's it. There's no need for license to be married, That is total bullshit.

but how do you know you want to live with her?

1 sat \ 5 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

but how do you know you want to live with her?

Never let your hormones to dictate your mind. Hormones are for a simple task in your life and that's it.

You must feel The Force, you must put on test on all levels. Otherwise you will regret it and sometimes could end up in bad situations. Let's say is a Natural Law that put you together and you have a contract. If you respect each others, that contract can stay forever.

465 sats \ 4 replies \ @Natalia 12 Dec 2023

You must feel The Force, you must put on test on all levels.

for me, I would show all my ugly sides or I make it even worst to see if he can handle it; if not, I'm not gonna waste my time; if yes, then let's see how life would take us.

and back to @ekzyis, yes be as toxic as you can be! many people are putting so much "makeup" to attract others, which is basically a race to see how long the lies can go on, unsustainable and so silly.

439 sats \ 3 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

I would recommend you to watch this amazing tale, "the two brains". And you @ekzyis should watch it. Take a good glass of wine, relax, and watch it when you have 2h time. Take your time, fuck the rest. Enjoy it.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Lux 14 Dec 2023

this is awesome thank you

0 sats \ 1 reply \ @Natalia 12 Dec 2023

okay! will be this weekend fun

146 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

Is really fun and educative. He even talk about natural law and stuff, but in a more subtle way.

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1 sat \ 3 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

The choosen one was Padme...

2 sats \ 2 replies \ @nemo 12 Dec 2023

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678 sats \ 7 replies \ @siggy47 12 Dec 2023

So let me give you some advice... Never mind :)

766 sats \ 6 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

He got The Darth Force now... he can give advice to himself now. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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255 sats \ 3 replies \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

Fucking this

This was just 1% of my toxicness

More to come if I feel like it

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77 sats \ 0 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

wise words... indeed always there's a top dog

712 sats \ 7 replies \ @Zepasta 12 Dec 2023

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493 sats \ 6 replies \ @Zepasta 12 Dec 2023

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276 sats \ 5 replies \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

because you keep fucking insisting that you know it better than we do that territories are a fucking bad idea

and apparently, you aren't even a coder so where the fuck does this confidence come from? this is a real mystery to me, lol :)

i could literally explain to you in details why you are wrong but it feels like waste of time so i will just watch you realize the hard truth yourself slowly over time, lol :)

that's why :) but you do you, i think you will see the light one day, lol :)

as i mentioned. i give you one year to understand :)

one year to realize, you might still need to lower your time preference as a toxic bitcoin maxi, lol :)

493 sats \ 2 replies \ @Zepasta 12 Dec 2023

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335 sats \ 1 reply \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

just not the way it's currently set up

guess what, we are also not happy with the current status, lol :)

thanks for allowing me to be fucking toxic to you :)

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Zepasta 12 Dec 2023

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465 sats \ 1 reply \ @Zepasta 12 Dec 2023

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21 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

I will give my toxic feedback on every update 😉

and this i do appreciate :)

921 sats \ 1 reply \ @evbosats 13 Dec 2023

Ah yes, bear market vibes have returned

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 14 Dec 2023

lol, just realized I posted this after bitcoin crashed 5%

548 sats \ 0 replies \ @WeAreAllSatoshi 12 Dec 2023

Disclaimer: I have not read this entire post yet.

I just wanted to chime in to say that I'm sorry to hear about your relationship ending. I could tell that there was something different about how you were interacting lately, but it's your personal business, and you can choose to share as little or as much as you want. I think you know this, but you have a strong support community here at SN!

493 sats \ 10 replies \ @grayruby 12 Dec 2023

The only path is through my friend. We all deal with romantic hardships in life. Human discontent generally comes from discontent with ourselves or others. If things weren't going well for months it is probably for the best for both of you to move on as painful as it may be.

The solution in these situations is not to hold onto the past or try to be friends, it is to press forward and work on being the best version of yourself for yourself and the next person that enters your life.

All the best.

221 sats \ 9 replies \ @Zepasta 12 Dec 2023

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264 sats \ 8 replies \ @nemo 12 Dec 2023

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31 sats \ 6 replies \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

sometimes, i think we are all wasting our time too much :)

31 sats \ 5 replies \ @nemo 12 Dec 2023

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31 sats \ 4 replies \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

yeah, making friends, what a fucking waste of time, lol :)

10 sats \ 3 replies \ @Zepasta 12 Dec 2023

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282 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 12 Dec 2023

i wonder if shitcoiners are toxic to each other, lol

probably not

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80 sats \ 1 reply \ @nemo 12 Dec 2023

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10 sats \ 0 replies \ @Zepasta 12 Dec 2023

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556 sats \ 0 replies \ @0fje0 12 Dec 2023

Well, I read the whole post without realizing who wrote it. Only checked afterwards, expecting to find that some relatively unknown account was having a bad SN-day.

Perhaps not surprisingly, my take on the post changed somewhat when I saw @ekzyis's name. I don't think I would ever have guessed that. Makes me reassess my own judgement. Which is good.

470 sats \ 0 replies \ @netstatic 13 Dec 2023

You censoring yourself pissed me off as much as your gf's message about all her free days being booked lol

869 sats \ 0 replies \ @evbosats 13 Dec 2023

Bullish

503 sats \ 1 reply \ @drlh 13 Dec 2023

If you think everyone around you is crazy... you might be the crazy one.

I thought the crazy are those who repeat same thing again and again, but awaits every time other results. Maybe just played too much far cry 3)

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 14 Dec 2023

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503 sats \ 0 replies \ @nullama 13 Dec 2023

I think I finally can start to grasph why @DarthCoin is being so toxic all the time.

I genuinely don't think he's toxic at all.

Happy to have him around here. You might agree or disagree on some points he makes, but that's the whole point of having a discussion. Comparing your personal thoughts and ideas, and see what actually gets you closer to something useful.

Note that I said useful, not true. For more about this concept, have a look at Derek Sivers upcoming book and articles about this here

465 sats \ 0 replies \ @mf 12 Dec 2023

100 sats \ 9 replies \ @Krv 12 Dec 2023

I'd love to see some examples of 'toxic'. In my observation, matter-of-fact speaking when the facts are extremely unpleasant are often get interpreted as toxic. Awhile back remember I started dating a woman who I had known on Facebook a little bit. She told me that I look an angry person on Facebook, completely opposite of how I am in person. I don't use Facebook anymore, but, truth is, I always spoke quite directly and frankly on Facebook. I just said what I believe was true. There was no hostility at all. I've had people who believe the same way as me say they like how matter-of-factly I spoke about things. I often read things that, to me, seem quite reasonable, only to see other people label it as hostil / vitrolic.

1550 sats \ 7 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

I think ekzyis post wasn't about women or his private relationship. That was the side story to relief himself from the pressure. Understandable. But more about how he understand "toxicity" in the good way and how to use it as a defense mechanism.

Very few people understand that bitcoin toxicity is actually a defense mechanism against shitcoiners. So he just applied that to people around him.

0 sats \ 6 replies \ @Krv 12 Dec 2023

Yeah, that's cool. Interesting points and discourse. I was just curious what of your posts would be classified as toxic, and why.

1 sat \ 3 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

Yes, they are toxic. By design. It's a feature not a bug.

0 sats \ 2 replies \ @Krv 12 Dec 2023

Right, they can be, depending upon the recipient I suppose. So far, your posts I've read seem fine to me, but we probably agree quite a bit on a lot of things.

100 sats \ 1 reply \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

Please don't agree with my posts... That makes me soft 😂😂😂 and my toxicity is going down.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Krv 12 Dec 2023

I'll keep reading. I'm sure I'll find something I that is toxic even for me ..

0 sats \ 1 reply \ @ek OP 13 Dec 2023

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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 13 Dec 2023

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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 13 Dec 2023

I'd love to see some examples of 'toxic'.

No you don't. At least not from the messages I have sent those people wasting my time.

Consider this message to be an example.

211 sats \ 0 replies \ @0348090484 13 Dec 2023

Read "the rational male"

121 sats \ 19 replies \ @iguano 12 Dec 2023

I don’t understand why so many people here keep inflating the ego of a guy who insult anyone who thinks differently than him… sad…

100 sats \ 18 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

Just with this comment you show that you didn't understand shit from this post and even didn't read it. Is not even about me! That shows how little you pay attention to what is going on on SN... pathetic.

21 sats \ 17 replies \ @iguano 12 Dec 2023

I didn't read the post, my reply still valid, of course you need to take out your stupid personality every time.

10 sats \ 15 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

I didn't read the post

So why FFS you decide to comment something that is OUT of the whole post? Geeze people nowadays are commenting only by the titles? No wonder this world is so fucked up...

21 sats \ 14 replies \ @iguano 12 Dec 2023

your name is on the title, are you idiot? or your ego can't let you see obvious things anymore?

I agree with you, the world is really fucked up.

1 sat \ 13 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

please read the whole post or STFU. Don't talk without knowing anything.

21 sats \ 12 replies \ @iguano 12 Dec 2023

I will not read anything with your name in the title lol ...

1 sat \ 11 replies \ @DarthCoin fwd 12 Dec 2023

fine for me. That shows exactly why I am smarter and happier than you...

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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 13 Dec 2023

if you didn't read the post, how do you know if i did indeed inflate "the ego of a guy who insult anyone who thinks differently than him"?

maybe i just wrote the title just to trigger people like you and i actually did quite the opposite in the post? lol

it's not too late to delete your comments, lol :)

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @0207a984de 14 Dec 2023

@DarthCoin is a dumbass

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @JesseJames 13 Dec 2023

I think you just need to go outside and take a walk or something.... go to the woods where there are no people. You will live longer (I think)

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @notgeld 13 Dec 2023

@DarthCoin is an old boomer who was exiled from the Theoretical Lightning Institute telegram chat precisely for boomerism. He isn't smart, and his toxicity is rather cancer than T-cells.