Honestly, despite what some people are telling you in here, brave gave you the best advice here. Go with Alby to start, IMHO (or WoS if you are on mobile). Non-custodial lightning is a pain in the ass. Fortunately, transactions are cheap and fast so you can quite literally keep a small amount in whatever wallet you wind up choosing, and either send it to an exchange to convert it to mainnet BTC or do whatever you want with it. Hell, even CashApp has lightning support built in, you can always use that as well if you wanted.

Again, this advice is considered heresy by a lot of people here, however, if you want the easiest way to get started and aren't looking to get into hosting your own node and setting up channels, it's really the only option that doesn't result in massive stress.