The problem nowadays is that we no longer have large families in the West. Older children who look after the little ones, uncles and aunts, grandparents nearby and children who run around with their neighbors for a day. In addition, you have to live in small apartments, both parents have to work to make ends meet and this is only possible if the children can be dropped off at day care. If the child is ill, you have a problem because you have to stay at home and so on. It is exhausting.