I can somewhat relate to what you say. I function best as the second in-charge - supporting the leader to achieve team objectives - rather than as the leader myself. I am not a fan of myriad responsibilities haha 

cryotosensei

What’s the V4V you bring to the table?

I've always been good at supporting other people's goals: need a 4th person for a pick-up game? I'm in; need someone to go on a caving adventure? I'm in; need help with your research project? I'm in. Seldom am I the one pushing for a particular activity.