414 sats \ 1 reply \ @cryotosensei 20 Mar \ on: Wife's Cancer Diagnosis (Part #4) BooksAndArticles
I don’t want to comment too much on the specifics of your situation, lest I feel I’m psychoanalysing your actions. I just want to share that:
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sometimes, I heave a heavy sigh or shout out a grunt in front of both my kids. Minus the wife ofc! Parenting is the least fun n inconvenient thing ever, and I’m still grieving over the loss of my once-vibrant (haha) social life. you are keeping it very well by not doing it in front of them.
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I find it useful just to zero in on one personal thing I wanna achieve every day. Then if I waste the rest of my leisure time doomscrolling or dazing, so be it. At least I got my one thing done. Today was posting a book review here.
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I think staring blankly at your phone could be your subconscious telling you to slow down process stuff let emotions simmer down n choose the next course of action. So as @siggy47 said, cut yourself PLENTY of slack, go gentle on yourself
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I will gladly down a few drinks with you. Can’t do it in person but will do it in spirit 🍻
Life is tough, but so are you.
I've noticed your other posts about parenting and wanted to say, there is a lot about parenting that is hard, but I hope you can find some joy in it. I really love spending time with my kids - and of course that shows up in different ways and for different lengths of time. Sometimes I just can't take their shenanigans, and sometimes it's a beautiful dance.
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