Yes, that is the quinceañera tradition, many want their party with great enthusiasm and others are forced, yes, you read correctly, forced to do all the act that the party entails, why are some of them forced? Well, for mothers or relatives with frustrated dreams who in their time could not have their party because they are extremely expensive, then they do everything possible so that the next generation does have one, in my opinion a waste of time and energy, obviously each one does with your money whatever you want, but personally I find it irresponsible to waste money on a one-night party, when with that money you could buy a second-hand car, invest in it, travel or anything productive if you are low-income. I mention it because I have acquaintances who had a forced party and I know mothers who are forcing their daughters even though they have already expressed that they do not want it. I was particularly lucky.