I found Alby extension is a very good companion for nostr. WHY? Because I can setup Alby with multiple accounts, including my own node too. With alby you can link any LNBits account (yours or custodial), Blink account, your own node or simply a custodial Alby account.

Then when is about to zap you can switch to which one you like. For receiving zaps, I prefer Minibits LN address. I am still testing it but so far works nice. I just receive zaps and then when I consider that the amount is enough, I withdraw to another LN wallet. Just playing around.

All this crazynezz against "do not use custodial zaps" is useless and meaningless. As I explained in this guide about LN address, using a custodial non-KYC is a good decoy opsec. Damn it is only for small amounts that you play around.