Hm, I bet that there's a well-intended meaning whenever people try to "fix" someone, but what they don't seem to get is, that things often times aren't as simple as they seem to be on the surface.

In your case, it's the ADHD that puts a hold to some things, for others, they don't even know what it is, specifically, let alone others.

Anyways, you sound like an interesting Pal, and I can relate to:

The "🤯" Gif encapsulates that feeling the best for me.😆