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81 sats \ 49 replies \ @anon 12 Aug \ parent \ on: The Amount Of Attention Girls Get Is Off The Charts. mostly_harmless

step three: get your own place

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeah buddy, you come over to the Netherlands and find a place to build something up, it's not gonna happen without taking up debt for 40+ years.

21 sats \ 1 reply \ @02974921f1 20 Aug

Huh. I was reading this and thought to myself, 'Man, being in the USA really must suck!' I never expected you to be from the Netherlands.

As a fellow Dutchie, I'm really surprised by this. I'm older now (>35 years), but I had a very different experience between the ages of 14 and 23 (when I met my wife). It was always easy to get a date, and we were treated as equals, either treating each other or splitting bills (going Dutch). Is there a difference between big cities and small towns? I'm from a small town myself.

21 sats \ 0 replies \ @Fabs OP 20 Aug

There will be a difference, albeit one that's getting smaller.

You're >35, I've just turned 25, which means that there's a solid 10-year-gap between us; I think social media and general brain rot (leftism and equality BS) wasn't as bad as it is today "back then", but oh well: I'll see when I ask a few girls if they'd like to get to know me. 🙂

10 sats \ 45 replies \ @02bcd3eeb0 12 Aug

Get out of the Netherlands

21 sats \ 44 replies \ @Undergotten 13 Aug

As if there's anywhere in the western world where women haven't been weaponized in this way...

Stay where you're at kid, and focus on money and health.

21 sats \ 43 replies \ @02bcd3eeb0 13 Aug

No need to even stay in the western world - rest of the world is a big place.

But if he does stay, Eastern Europe is better than Western in terms of dating and cost of living.

74 sats \ 18 replies \ @anon 13 Aug

regardless, living at home with your parents will only get you so far with the ladies

53 sats \ 17 replies \ @Fabs OP 13 Aug

True, but that's the best bet for now.

109 sats \ 16 replies \ @anon 13 Aug

fair, but moving out even if renting is a difference existence you'll get there!

225 sats \ 15 replies \ @anon 13 Aug

in the meantime you can relate you do not need to mate relationships come in all kinds of forms and evolve in life hang out with people learn about yourself improve yourself everything will come to you over time as you iterate yourself each day and not be focused on specific outcomes