this territory is moderated
Men want youth+beauty because fertility. Women want height, dominance and wealth. You can compensate for height with the other two.
I wish I could find the chart, but it plotted perceived attractiveness of men by women with height and income. A 5’6” man had to make $400k to have the same attractiveness as a 6’4” guy making $60k
It’s all just biology brother.
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Hypergamy is real and alive
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Then you're around the wrong kind of women, and probably shallowly looking past homier good women. Just saying.
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It's absolute lunacy to me why one would try and hit those boxes for the chance of having a family (and a very good chance at being divorced later on)
It's all on the man huh? Biology my ass, we're all the same in this day and age, aren't we? That's what they like to claim, ain't it? They constantly want the pros of everything while cutting out the cons, and if you say something about that, you're suddenly not "manly", I'm growing sick and tired of this society.
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You are an individual. Don’t let Society force its norms on you especially one who’s views are so asinine that men and women are the same. And yes “it’s all on the man” as you say. You come across very whiny and have a defeatist attitude. A lot of people on this thread have given you very good advice and instead of embracing it and trying something different you have whined and complained and been sarcastic on every comment. That’s no way to live life and no way to have a girl be interested in spending time with you. And as others have pointed out woman are more perspective than men and can sense that sort of thing even if you think you are hiding it in front of them.
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Yeah “we are all the same, men and women” is the big lie. You saw Bitcoin, now get out of the matrix.
You deserve a good woman and a family, but you have to become a man first.
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