I'm in academia. I love my work. I fantasize about it when I've been on holidays for more than a few days. I'll take out the laptop as soon as I've put my kid to bed. I spend every minute of my day with my kid when he's not sleeping or not as school. At some point, i slept less hours so that i did not have to compromise on time to work and time with the kid. My two passions at the time. Now that he's a bit older I've managed to re-add sport to the equation. For me, it's all about doing stuff that give me satisfaction. Work just happens to be a very important one to give me satisfaction.