Saying goodbye becomes extremely difficult when we care deeply for someone but realize that a healthy relationship with them is unattainable.
Remaining indicates persisting in anticipation of unfulfilled changes, enduring harmful behaviors, settling for minimal effort, and sacrificing a part of ourselves to avoid losing everything.
We are aware that leaving will be painful, but it will lead to recovery. Instead, remaining will only further aggravate the wound.
At times, you decide to depart not due to a lack of affection for that individual, but because it is your self-love that prompts you to prioritize your well-being, and with love you say goodbye.
This post lands here with perfect timing, thanks for your message. Saying goodbye is usually a failure: often needed, but things really can change sometimes. Nonetheless, every situation is on its own.
Love is a ghost that wonders about in lovers' brains, and it's damn difficult to catch ghosts. If you love you let go when needed, yes. But sometimes it's impossible to understand the when that is needed and when, on the other hand, things can be fixed.
Good luck.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @AG 6 Oct
Thank you for your kind and apprehensive words 🧡
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