It does feel like a mother may be naturally the more emotionally connected parent. Although I see that balance work out a lot of different ways. 

That's a good question. They are both probably almost equally important. There is always a delicate balance. Everyone needs time to themselves also.

I agree. What about physical vs. emotional presence?

DesertDave

alter_native

I think just being present when available may be one of the biggest. You can figure and work everything else out, as long as you are there.