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I think gaslighting is involved. If someone is overreacting or reacting badly then criticize the action not the person and his character flaws
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Regarding insensitivity, when I am most irate I can be the coldest most ruthless person. Need help? Talk to the hand
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How does sensitivity inherently connected to gaslighting? Did you read the original post?
That makes sense and I agree. And I think sensitive people who stand I their power can be very intimidating to someone who is uncomfortable in their skin. In my experience people are either very attracted to me or very put off. Especially in person. It feels like a blessing mostly and also super challenging at times.
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Being sensitive is not bad. It's how you react to your senses that matters.
When people say someone is too sensitive, it usually means they react badly. Insensitive people do not react badly, because they never sensed anything was wrong in the first place.
A sensitive person who is in control of their actions can be a great leader, because they are aware of how different situations make people feel.