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106 sats \ 6 replies \ @Imyourfed 12 Dec \ parent \ on: This Day on SN: December 12 meta
It's fine, it just happens. It's proven that when you're angry or a little disturbed, you can say things that you might regret saying. For me, I never take the words of people who are saying something when they're angry I know by heart they don't mean it.
Btw, you've got balls to write about your feelings so well. I could never gather courage to write like this.
This was my favorite reply (next to the top comment):
This post is completely deranged and you'll read it 5 years from now and cringe, but I get it.
Btw, you've got balls to write about your feelings so well. I could never gather courage to write like this.
Never say never 👀 But thank you, I only did it because not writing about it was worse and I really think we need more authentic people, I am done with all the fakeness.
I also know that I would appreciate if someone writes like this if they really mean it (and not just some rage bait or something) so why shouldn't I write like this? Because it requires courage? Don't we all want to be courageous? We need to start somewhere 👀
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I totally get this. People say don't cry when you want to cry but it's the worst thing to do. Not expressing your feelings will literally hurt you from inside each day, and you'll become depressed and look like broke all the time. I too have some experience, and disturbing things happened to me that I never expressed to anyone ever because I fear they'll judge me, or maybe I can't trust how people will keep my feelings. (I feel when sharing feelings and secrets, you should choose a person the same way like you choose a software for you that you trust, is encrypted, and won't leak things lol). I've learned how to fake calmness, even when a fire is burning inside me every time. Writing things online is a part very new to me and maybe I'll try to write. Maybe I'll start without thinking that people won't judge me.
Thank you.
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you'll definitely be judged, but there will also be people who will appreciate you (hopefully).
I actually zapped this dude 1k sats because I had to laugh so much haha
not sure if they were serious
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Dude literally said you're doing Reddit style Karma farming. ☹️
Yeah, there are some stonehearted guys out there who'll say these hurtful things to you. I like your cool attitude of zapping him and laughing lol. this is what I need to learn, If it was me I would have replied him rudely and maybe it would end up as a nasty argument.
It’s hard to digest things and keep calm when someone hurts your genuine feelings.
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It should be easier online though, so might be a good place to start
Will try! 💪
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