> Maybe im looking for lnproxy.org like service I can spin up myself

you can spin up lnproxy for yourself, it's free and open source software and there are two implementations:

Go implementation: https://github.com/lnproxy/lnproxy-relay

Dotnet implementation: https://github.com/nodlAndHodl/lnproxy

supertestnet

Ah, we would need a private channel to route back from the decoy to the real node, and we would need the decoy with a valid public (or possibly private with hints) channel to handle the outer invoice. Ill think about this some more.

Maybe im looking for lnproxy.org like service I can spin up myself. No point using a 3rd party if I am trying to hide my true node pubkey.

lightning

Lightning receiver privacy

BallLightning

Ah, we would need a private channel to route back from the decoy to the real node, and we would need the decoy with a valid public (or possibly private with hints) channel to handle the outer invoice. Ill think about this some more.

Maybe im looking for lnproxy.org like service I can spin up myself. No point using a 3rd party if I am trying to hide my true node pubkey.