#1. Not. As in counsellor. Who will let me ventilate my feelings n hopefully ask good questions that help me see the light. 

I feel less need to pour out my woes in front of a counsellor these days. I think I have also developed my coping mechanism, getting used to having zero social life (yes, I’m still a bit bitter), all that jazz

#5. Apparently, these people trust strangers haha. Your concern is precisely why my wife and I haven’t gone down this route yet

cryotosensei

Tips to cope with parenthood

Thank you so much for being brave and sharing out your feelings. I commented on your original post as well. 
I have some follow up questions on the summarises advises here. 

#1 When you say counsellor , do you mean a psychologist?

#5: How do people trust the nannies they hired just for the two hours ? Or do your mean to hire a long term nanny and then take regular 2hr dates such as every alternate week etc?

