I used simple bitcoin wallet for a while, then they went away (kinda, maybe they are back), so I used blue wallet for a bit. I like core, honestly, but making a multisig in core is not easy. And if I want my wife to be able to use it...so I go to one of the wallets that offers easier multisig.

Now there's taproot, and I'd totally pay for a good wallet that did FROST or MuSig2, but not many hardware signers support either, so I guess that is still Soon(TM).

Paying for software might increase the speed at which these sorts of features become available, but for now it mostly feels like donations or becoming a contributor to a project are the main ways for users to signal what they are interested in.