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I did my fair share by transporting my kids’ toys to my dad’s house and workplace, but my wife singlehandedly almost emptied the entire apartment within two days. My efforts seem weak to her super heroic antics. I don’t know how she does it. All I care about is that I can just be at her beck and call.
you don't. It's a perpetual gamble
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14 sats \ 11 replies \ @Aardvark 7h
Are you married? I don't recall...
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nope
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21 sats \ 9 replies \ @ek 2h
Do you want to be married?
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yes
This got way too deep, way too fast
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100 sats \ 6 replies \ @Aardvark 2h
Did you two just get engaged?!?! 💍
Omg I'm going to cry!🥰
0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek 2h
This got way too deep, way too fast
You’re welcome
I agree, you can marry many people and make it work...there's no right one but many possible right ones.
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used to have a teacher who said "there are 50,000 the ones out there for yah."
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Searching for a right perfect one is making a lot of people stay single. Including myself, but I admit I lost a lot of women that could be a great wife.
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64 sats \ 2 replies \ @anon 4h
If I were single again, I'd follow the 37% rule.
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21 sats \ 1 reply \ @ek 4h
@Car we talked about this recently
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100 sats \ 0 replies \ @Car 3h
Haha ya we did. I have only ever been in love two times in my life. One of those times I married the woman I loved dearly but it ended in divorce. As the man in the relationship its entirely my fault. I've owned and come to terms with it. Becoming closer to God has taught me that. These days I’ve learned to date with intention it makes things easier in discerning which are the right women to date.
How do you know, if its the right one, praying, introducing to family and friends is important also there is this feeling of familiarity with the person that clicks right from the beginning. Usually by 6-12 months you should know but from what I hear all marriages/relationships are different.
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You've married the right person if the thought of losing them fills you with existential dread, rather than relief.
Related great scene from The Office https://youtu.be/DpZnZGIuUBQ
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31 sats \ 3 replies \ @ek 3h
This scene made me cry, thank you
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When it tries to, this show can be really beautiful.
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38 sats \ 1 reply \ @ek 2h
At least my ex-girlfriend introduced me to this show, even though she ended up clearly not being The One.
For example, she was also into antinatalism.
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Strange juxtaposition, but perhaps someone in need of a reality check.
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never seen this. Beautiful, lol
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i believe it i not about marrying the right person it is more of making the best out of the person you are married to i have always believed that before someone starts looking for superwoman they must be themeselves superman. it is just about not changing a thing about the ones you love or care about it is about loving them with all their flaws and mistakes somehow
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TBH, more than half of Indians are married to someone who they come to know after they are married.
I'm one of them.
And when I look around me I find more and more happy and satisfied couples and I think the real sign of being right partner lies somewhere in how many happy and satisfying moments you are creating for each other.
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Many of us are lucky enough to find the right person and even more so a super heroine lol
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Roll 3h
we do not as we evolutae as person and as a couple...
it is a constant work in action, in communication and so on...
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I'm married to a spotted giraffe... with a tall neck and lots of necklaces. She was giving me the evil eye when when I woke up and looked at her LOL
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Because she told me so.
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