you can always give yourself a value audit, just because somebody taught you something matters, doesn't make it a bad thing, we don't grow and exist in a vaccum after all 

stack_harder

That’s wild to think about. If all our values come from someone else, maybe we’ve never really chosen them ourselves, that makes you wonder what would still matter if we grew up alone. 

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AskSN

What if everything you value, only has meaning simply because someone else taught you it matters? Would you still value it if you had discovered it differently but entirely on your own?

Because, that's the real problem...