Do you believe in second chances? \ stacker news ~AskSN

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552 sats \ 13 comments \ @stack_harder 12 Sep AskSN

I like to think i am, generally, a forgiving person, in most things.

But there are red lines where, if crossed, no second chances are given - infidelity for example, maybe a classic Judas back stabbing from a friend.

Where do you stackers fall on forgiveness and second chance scale?

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114 sats \ 0 replies \ @BlokchainB 12 Sep

Absolutely!!

100 sats \ 0 replies \ @NovaRift 12 Sep

No way, if a bullet is shot, it's sho. It hit right in my ass. I might forgive, but when I see that person again the wound in my ass will remind me of what they did, and I won't trust them the same as before. I mean the relationship will not be the same anymore. Forgiveness is God's job.

49 sats \ 1 reply \ @optimism 12 Sep

Yes. But not third. Trust betrayed too often. I feel naive now.

100 sats \ 0 replies \ @stack_harder OP 13 Sep

yeah, if a person betrays forgiveness more than once, then game over

14 sats \ 1 reply \ @OT 12 Sep

In theory yes. It can be hard to put into practice IRL.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @stack_harder OP 13 Sep

yeah, like the old biblical idea of turning the other cheek, extremely hard in practice

14 sats \ 1 reply \ @Scoresby 12 Sep

I tend to be pretty forgiving. haven't ever really had a situation in my life where I felt that I would cut someone out and be done with them.

But I do think there are situations that require such action, especially when talking about third, fourth, seventh, or more chances.

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @stack_harder OP 13 Sep

i am also luck in that i havnt had a situation like that, although i think sometimes, a person could kind of forgive, in theory, but also cut out .

like maybe if they were dealing with a drug addict relative etc when cutting out is best for a time etc

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @flat24 1h

Absolutely!!

"every new day is a second chance to continue building what you want for your life tomorrow".

0 sats \ 0 replies \ @bitcoingecko 13 Sep

I think forgiving is good but I will definitely be more careful in the future. Of course depends on what happened.