When you’re younger, you go through milestones at the same time as the people around you.

You’re kids together, playing sports and make-believe. You’re in school together, going through each class at the same time. You graduate together, becoming adults at the same time.

And then, all of a sudden, your path diverges very quickly from that of the people around you.

Suddenly, it can feel like you are out there on your own, trying to figure out what to do by yourself. As time passes, the space between these paths can become even greater. At some point, you’ll look at someone you love and wonder, “How is that your life and this my life?”

Here's something to keep in mind: no matter how different your paths become, you can still love and support another person. You can cheer them on as they pursue their goals; they can cheer you on as you pursue yours. Our different experiences don't have to lead to emotional distance.