I've done this every Sunday for quite a few weeks in a row now. A digital detox - in other words, no random surfing/apps for one day a week - is a tremendously valuable thing. It's amazing how your mind clears right up.
And you realize that there's an evil little imp, called "let me just check this really quick", sitting on your shoulder all the time, and really messing with your focus.
For me it's both phone and laptop, they're equal in terms of time-stealing. It's important to take a break from BOTH of them.
Here's the steps I took. The goal was to avoid mindless distractions on at least one day a week, but still use the computer/phone as a TOOL - one that I control.
1- Make sure you can access the tools you need, without the internet. This is a preliminary step and may be time-consuming. But it's worth it. I want to USE my laptop/phone as a TOOL, I don't want to be used by them.
I used to have all the docs I regularly used on Google Docs, and used multiple note-taking/organizing applications that required connectivity. No more. I've switched everything to just plain text files, and use Notepad++ extensively, especially the folding feature. It's not that hard - honestly the fancy tools are not that much of an improvement.
2- Turn off internet on your laptop. I experimented with a few options, and found that turning off the network adaptor in Powershell works best on a Windows computer. Here's how:
- Start powershell (must be run as administrator)
- Run this command - Disable-NetAdapter -Name "Wi-Fi" -confirm:$false
- (to connect again, run this command) Enable-NetAdapter -Name "Wi-Fi" -confirm:$false
You might be able to easily go into your bios and switch off your network adapter. I can do that sometimes, but it was frustratingly tough to get into the bios setup mode - my computer was temperamental that way. The powershell command always works.
And Airplane mode is just too easy to bypass - it's just one click, on my laptop.
3- Switch to an alternative, limited launcher on your phone. I use an Android (running GrapheneOS) and installed the Slim Launcher app. And it's easy to switch the launcher, just search for launcher in the settings.
Slim Launcher is a minimalist, black and white launcher app. I've set up some basic "tool" apps (phone, texting, a few others), but no browser, social media, anything like that. If you have notifications turned on from other apps, and they bubble up, you CAN get into those other apps. I don't generally have notifications turned on, so that's not a problem for me.
And there you have it. You'll note that I'm still using my phone and laptop during the digital detox - I do that because they're awesome tools. But that's what they are, at least on this one day of the week. They're my tools, that I control - I'm not controlled by them with infinite scroll or other distractions.
And there you have it - my prescription for more focus, calmness, and time, and better mental health.