I have the same problem, which is why I limit exposure to electronics and internet. Without these options, they become very creative, more focused, and interested in whatever they choose to do.
For me, being bored is also ok

He wants to watch cartoons if i let him choose.

And play outside.

I favour the latter.

But you're very right, it's not about me telling him what to do. But if i can expose him to some new experiences, he may just like them.

south_korea_ln

alter_native

Parent corner: ideas for long-term kid activities

You did a great job telling us what you'd like for him, but you missed the most important part: What does he want for himself? 🙂