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The other day I deleted my home internet.
Mostly as an experiment (every now and then I will delete bank accounts, credit cards, phone numbers, etc... just to see what might happen), but also partly because my internet provider is awful. They offer the kind of service where you lose internet access every month or so, their technicians have to visit you in person to fix problems, you can hardly find their customer support number, and when you do get a hold of them, you get bounced around to a handful of temporary offshore employees reading off scripts for an hour.
And since the two primary telecom providers in my area are basically mirror images of each other (except one has a blue logo and one has a red one), I knew I wouldn't get much better service with the other one.
Initially I was considering downgrading my internet plan, but the clever telecom duopolies have dialed in their pricing so that if you want to save 10% on your internet bill, you need to accept a 10x internet speed reduction. There's really no such thing as a "budget" internet plan... everything is $70-$100/month or more.
So I just left entirely. Well, sort of.
I do have a $20/month phone plan (the cheapest I could find in Canada), which gives me 1GB/month of internet data, so I can still access the internet in a pinch... but 1GB goes by very fast so I keep that mostly for emergencies or when I'm walking around and need directions. It's certainly not enough for me to do work like uploading videos to YouTube.
I also have an "office" of sorts, which does have internet, so I do most of my publishing, emailing, or ChatGPT prompting there.
It's only been about a week so far, but I've already noticed a couple of big changes in my behavior.
First, on the day I deleted my internet, I realized how dependent I was. My TV stopped working, my computer became relatively useless, even my mattress (one of those cooling ones that tracks your body) stopped working.
I also found myself constantly opening up my laptop, refreshing my browser, and hitting the same "No Internet" page. Seriously, I must have tried to use the internet dozens of times that day. I guess it's all a subconscious pattern at this point, but it took a day without internet to really see how important of a role it plays in my life.
A few days in, I mostly stopped trying to use my laptop in the evenings and started reading a lot more instead. I even spent an evening drawing designs for a new idea I had with pen and paper. It's probably been years since I've picked up a pen and paper and focused on one singular task like that.
Because I'm no longer constantly using my laptop, I'm also not spending all my evenings in my office where my laptop is located... it sounds kind of strange but I'm starting to re-discover areas of my home that I rarely use. I'm also spending a bit more time outdoors, but a heat wave this weekend kept me inside.
Finally, the strangest thing I've noticed is how little "news" I get now, and how relaxed I feel in the evenings. I still get to hear the regular gossip and the news about which country is bombing which country at the office, but every day I go to the office with basically no context of what happened in the world since I left the day before.
It's a really cool feeling to not know what's happening thousands of miles away, what the stock market is doing, or what new drama is floating around on the internet, even if just for a few hours at a time. It's really relaxing, and seems to be making my evenings and weekends much more enjoyable. I'm also sleeping better, despite losing access to the "smart bed" that was supposed to perfect my sleep for me.
In the past I've tried things like deleting Twitter from my phone, limiting my screen time, etc..., but so far this is the only method I've had much success with. The other ones are too easy to get around. This time I had to physically send my modem in the mail back to my telecom provider, so it's a real pain if I change my mind and want internet again.
Anyways, highly recommend experimenting with this if you're either curious about how your internet usage may be clouding or distracting you from your offline life, or if you're just frustrated with your internet company and don't want to keep paying them for poor service.
We'll see how long this experiment lasts - don't expect timely replies tonight, offline for now!
inspiring, thanks. might be able to integrate this kind of experiment into my pronect. i will give it some thought, at least.
good luck and keep us posted, plz.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @kr OP 6h
Will do!
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Dude, I love this. It’s why I try to stay off of social media. It’s a battle with the kids. Maybe we do a no screen time week
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30 sats \ 1 reply \ @Scoresby 9h
There was a time when I read a lot of news. My kids were really little at this point, so I may have just been trying to entertain myself while dealing with babies. But it certainly wasn't a good use of my time. Then I heard this line by Taleb that you shouldn't bother reading the news because if it's important, you'll hear about it and otherwise it's a waste of time. Really resonated with me, and I've never gone back to reading news.
No internet at home is intriguing.
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17 sats \ 0 replies \ @kr OP 5h
Yes, I recall that line from Taleb as well, definitely lines up with my experience this week
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10 sats \ 0 replies \ @Signal312 3h
Love it! Keep us posted. It definitely fits in with the whole "digital detox" that I've been posting about regularly (I often do a complete digital detox on Sundays).
It reminds me of when I moved to a separate apartment, from a roommate house-sharing setup. I decided to have no cable TV. For the first week or so, I would look longingly at the little cable connector on the wall. And then...that longing just went away. I found other stuff to do.
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Good on you.
More and more, people spend their time entranced by powerful algorithms that are cleverly designed to capture your attention and hold it - the algorithms then mine users for data and are constantly increasing their intelligence and ability to hold and milk their human captives. This surely alters peoples consciousness and the nature of human life and society, and belief... There is talk about AI itself reaching a level of consciousness, and although that seems to me incredible, the algorithms do already possess significant power over peoples lives, thoughts, feelings and manifest huge value monetarily and politically. Algorithms can already in some ways, and increasingly will, know us better than we can know ourselves- if we let them...and they are hard to avoid. They forget nothing and monitor everything we do online and, through the IOT potentially monitor you as you walk down the street. They are owned by a few extremely wealthy 'Godking' individuals and corporations who in turn are increasingly linked to and working with governments - the algorithms enable politicians to minutely monitor population sentiments and responses and to formulate messaging. All this interaction between humans and the algorithms is enabled by converting the humans speech symbols into digital machine language...a language stripped of all feeling- a language reduced to zeros and ones- a reduced level of consciousness, but also a very decisive one, that never forgets and can process vast quantities of data very quickly. Is AI and the interconnected algorithms around it a manifestation obstructing/diverting peoples consciousness? Yes, imo.
The internet service in Canada sounds even worse than here in New Zealand where the prices for cable internet are more or less set by a cartel of rentseeking ISPs and the government. However I found one smallish ISP here that provides me with unlimited 4G internet which is quite fast enough for my purposes (can stream medium quality video) for NZD$17(about USD$10) per month.
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14 sats \ 0 replies \ @kr OP 5h
Yeah our offerings are brutal, no idea why Canadians just sit there and act like this is normal.
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20 sats \ 1 reply \ @LibertasBR 16h
First, on the day I deleted my internet, I realized how dependent I was. My TV stopped working, my computer became relatively useless, even my mattress (one of those cooling ones that tracks your body) stopped working.
This is honestly very scary and a huge warning that something is not right in our daily lives. Here, it happens a few times a year—power outages for a few hours due to heavy rain. In those moments, when we don’t have anything downloaded, everything just becomes a heavy piece of paper. Nothing physical to read or interact with.
I hope you stay strong on your path of change and keep sharing your experiences here.
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21 sats \ 0 replies \ @kr OP 6h
Yeah it's hard to fully grasp how dependent we are on internet and electricity until they are gone.
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20 sats \ 0 replies \ @grayruby 17h
I find Bell Fibe internet to be pretty good. I had a lot of problems with Rogers when we lived in the city.
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Yo, that's crazy, but kudos to you! Do you think you're gonna stick with it?
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30 sats \ 0 replies \ @kr OP 6h
Yeah I'll try a couple of months and see the effect it's having on my life. I'm cautiously optimistic that this might actually be sustainable.
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I'll definitely be interested in your updates. Hilarious that your bed stopped working.
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42 sats \ 0 replies \ @kr OP 6h
It was pretty funny, but also a good chance for me to actually test whether the bed was providing any value. Jury is out on that one.
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I also found myself constantly opening up my laptop, refreshing my browser, and hitting the same "No Internet" page. Seriously, I must have tried to use the internet dozens of times that day. I guess it's all a subconscious pattern at this point, but it took a day without internet to really see how important of a role it plays in my life.
Freakin' fantastic. Wonderful to hear
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