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  1. The Myth of Easy Love "Social media promised us rose petals and sunrise kisses. Reality? Sticky arguments over whose turn it is to do the dishes, and silent treatments that last longer than the WiFi outage."
  2. The Three Lies We Believe Lie #1: "Love should feel effortless." (Truth: It’s a stubborn decision, not a spark.)
Lie #2: "They’ll change." (Truth: Love is acceptance, not renovation.)
Lie #3: "Alone = lonely." (Truth: A crowded bed can feel emptier than a silent kitchen at 2 AM.)
  1. How to Love When It’s Hard Fix the small things: The way they slurp tea matters more than anniversary gifts.
Argue naked: Vulnerability disarms pride. (Try it.)
Build a vocabulary of silence: Sometimes "I’m sorry" is a shared samosa at midnight.
  1. A Letter to the Exhausted Lover "You’re not failing. Love isn’t fireworks—it’s the stubborn refusal to let go when the room fills with smoke."
Discussion: "What’s your ‘ugly beautiful’ love moment? The one that wouldn’t make Instagram but saved you?