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385 sats \ 8 replies \ @Undisciplined 20h \ on: Did you have a prenup when you married? bitcoin
I’ve always thought that you shouldn’t marry someone you feel the need to defend yourself against.
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42 sats \ 3 replies \ @0xbitcoiner 19h
The thing is, you never know what’s gonna happen. Better safe than sorry. Why do you think your other half’s never gonna let you down?
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128 sats \ 2 replies \ @Undisciplined 19h
You should trust the person you’re marrying.
It’s an enormous commitment, prenup or no, and you shouldn’t enter into with someone you’re scared of.
Sometimes you have to be all in for a thing to work.
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42 sats \ 1 reply \ @0xbitcoiner 19h
I get what you’re saying, but I don’t see it as a lack of love or commitment when people want a contract.
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32 sats \ 0 replies \ @Undisciplined 18h
The vows are the terms of the contract.
Sometimes you have to burn the bridges behind you as a commitment device.
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53 sats \ 0 replies \ @justin_shocknet 19h
This, marriage is the anti-hedge affirmation.
If you need a parachute just stay unmarried and vow nothing.
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42 sats \ 2 replies \ @anon 19h
that's what I used to think too, but two of my friends ended up in a bad divorce last year and almost financially ruin.
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17 sats \ 0 replies \ @Undisciplined 19h
I appreciate the concern but maintain my position that you shouldn’t marry someone that you have serious concerns about.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @justin_shocknet 17h
This isn't about trusting your partner then, this is about you trusting youself to be a better judge of character than your friends.
Or maybe you know they're ultimately at fault for their behavior in the relationship, and you're not confident that your less of a loser than they are.
Either way, it's an inward problem.
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