Well, you had me from the title. And you literally dropped the mic on

If it gets hard for you to manage multiple identities maybe you should stop doing that. There is a trend these days with people blocking family and known persons online for their mental health and freedom of speech and career. At first I was a bit shocked and then I got it. It does has a point if you feel constrained or judged or not understood. I does have a point if you are thinking on one level and them at the other. We can chose people around us at all times, we just have to assume the choice and live with it.