Right there with ya. Honestly, I think talking is the way out and being real. Stop taking sides and reject this team / mob mentality. Try to be a good faith actor with your friends and family. That's what I try to do.

As a Christian I believe that Christ will return and make everything right. But until that day our missions as His followers is to share the good news and live it out. The other thing I try to remind myself is that it has been much darker in the past. Not in my lifetime but we have seen dark days in history.