I think it is an illusion. Since ignoring the other important things in the world your own world is summarized to the 4 things you know, and your mind is locked in that box, sometimes a comfortable box and on occasions not so much.
You mention that your mind and your way of thinking have changed after studying, after awakening and understanding that there was a world that you did not know (money, savings, economy, investment, privacy, self -ustody, among other aspects to which it leads us to learn about Bitcoin)
And that others, or specifically your partner does not understand you or simply does not follow the steps. And that happens because she is not changing her mind just like you, and that change is not taking place because she is not consuming the same information as you. It is the key.
Data: I say this with all conviction of the world, I lived the same experience with my partner, until she decided to start learning about the "bitcoin" theme
I think that in your own words there is the answer you are looking for.