With real estate, it's not unreasonable to think of buying your own house as more than a simple financial investment. There are qualitative differences about owning and you have to pay to live somewhere.

My wife and I have our own retirement accounts from prior jobs and we manage them separately. She was supportive of me going all-in on (paper) bitcoin.

For our day-to-day financial management, she's fine with me stacking sats, as long as we maintain a sufficient emergency fund.

It's very important to meet your partner where they are, when you can. Making a life together means trusting each other not to make completely ruinous choices.