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0 sats \ 4 replies \ @ek 15 Nov \ parent \ on: Stacker Saloon
I got interested and asked myself what the evolutionary purpose of anger is. I found this:
This matches my experience of how anger can be useful. When somebody is angry with me, I make sure to take them serious and ask myself if I indeed did something wrong.
Anger has also helped me assist a woman who was being treated badly by another man. While everyone on the train was shocked that he was threatening to hit her and she was crying, I stood up and told him to back off. It didn’t help much, because she still got off the train with him, but I just couldn’t watch that injustice.
However, I’m also very aware of how the bystander effect works (part of my training as a paramedic), so I don’t blame the other people on the train. I also didn’t feel like I would be putting my life on the line; otherwise, I probably wouldn’t have stood up, either.
So with asserting boundaries via anger, it’s not just your own boundaries, but also the boundaries of others.
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Wouldn't this have been possible without anger?
I guess it depends what is meant by anger. Anger at injustice but directed in a controlled way can be good. I don't know if uncontrolled anger can ever be good, except maybe as a survival instinct
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Wouldn't this have been possible without anger?
Sure, it would just have been more difficult. Anger helps to act now, and not get analysis paralysis.
Anger at injustice but directed in a controlled way can be good. I don't know if uncontrolled anger can ever be good, except maybe as a survival instinct
I agree
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