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I was having coffee with a friend yesterday, who'd just gone to see a doctor after a surgery he'd had, which was mostly healed. This doctor was pretty firm about "now is the start of the later part of life, all the decisions you make now are going to determine the quality of rest of your life". Basically, encouraging healthy eating and regular exercise.
His blood markers weren't great (high glucose and insulin, in the pre-diabetic range). The doctor told him to basically stop eating carbs, or limit them very strictly.
My reaction to this story (as a carnivore) was that he was EXTREMELY lucky to get a doctor who would go out on a limb and tell him to stop eating carbs. Most doctors will give the standard advice (eat lots of whole grains, lots of fruits and vegatables). I CONGRATULATED him, and told him how lucky he was to have a doctor like this, who would tell the sometimes difficult truth. Most doctors will wait till you're ACTUALLY diabetic, and then put you on drugs.
And here's what he told me, "But, I'm already low-carb!"
I happen to know that this is precisely NOT true. I'd had lunch with him recently, while he had a huge grilled cheese sandwich, lots of bread. And when we met yesterday we were in kind of a self-serve coffeeshop, and he was experimenting with the syrups, and they also had some sugary kambucha on tap, which he had.
If you're eating keto, you're DEFINITELY not eating or drinking any sugary crap that you run across, and of course zero other carbs. So he was absolutely NOT keto.
I didn't push it. That's a good way to lose a friend. But really, self-deception is the worst.
47 sats \ 1 reply \ @itsrealfake 5h
how close are you to this person? if you want to do the thing and convince him, then you need to figure out how to do that.
I'd advise you probably aren't gonna teach an old dog any new tricks tho.
if this is somebody who are "fam" with, then you might want to evaluate ways to get him to think. what sorts of stories/tales can you use to get in his head. "you know, I was surprised to learn that peas have a really high glycemic index.
if this somebody you're joking with, you could just mock his decisions to eat candy instead of meat. "oh, well, I guess you're still on that suicide plan. you'll have to save a seat for me in heaven... oh, I wonder if they have any fat enough for your ass"
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I'd say definitely not close enough to make comments like that!
Although maybe I could come up with "roundabout" way to mention a continuous glucose monitor. Apparently wearing those devices is a really good way for people to realize just how high their blood glucose is.
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34 sats \ 0 replies \ @Fenix 7h
Let he eat whatever he wants. You did your part advising.
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Well, you tried to help, but he's a grown person. He needs to live with his decisions. Just note, there's a huge difference between Keto and reducing carbs alone. I'm sure you're aware. I've done both, and Keto is a regime that is serious and should be done with care. My wife and I tried it and it put her in the hospital with a temporary liver condition. So, now we do the latter, which is just reduce carbs in general but not wipe them out entirely for protein and fats alone. It makes a difference (note what makes more of a difference is just cutting out the soda of any kind and drinking coffee instead).
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Self deception is quite bad. It should be your safety net to protect against others deceiving you, but you’re also deceiving yourself
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