For me, it was "The Millionaire Next Door". It’s a bit dated, but it changed how I see money and wealth.
The main idea is that most millionaires don’t actually live flashy lifestyles. A lot of them just live normal lives, driving a Toyota or Honda, and being smart with their money. Meanwhile, the people showing off the luxury stuff and sport cars often aren’t actually rich - they’re just spending a lot.
This book really made me realize that being wealthy isn’t about looking rich. It's more about avoiding lifestyle inflation and staying consistent with finances. Now when I see someone in a luxury car or living in a fancy apartment, my first thought is: “Can they really afford it, or is it just for show?”. And I know that in most cases, its probably the second.
Not a book, but I used to read MrMoneyMustache quite a lot. I think his philosophy was pretty similar The Millionaire Next Door and others. I would distill it to:
I read Rich Dad Poor Dad and it hit pretty hard.
I don't remember all the things but his example of an academic parent really stuck with me
Yes, The Millionaire Next Door was great, and influenced a lot of people, including me.
But I'm going to say The Bitcoin Standard by Saifaedan Ammous. Not really personal finance, however, it really taught me about money - good money and bad money.
And money is something (though I was maybe personal finance savy) that I just did NOT understand, at all. Didn't understand money, didn't understand inflation, didn't understand any of that.
Understanding it, and then learning more about Bitcoin, made a big difference to me.
Excellent recommendation, I haven't read this book yet. A fundamental book that was very powerful and significant for me was "The Richest Man in Babylon."