It’s my son’s first day of primary school!

The first day of school alone reveals a seismic difference in perspective between Singapore and Japan.

In Japan, first graders would be embraced into the welcoming arms of their elementary school via an elaborate 入学式 (entrance ceremony). The hall will be beautifully decorated; parents and teachers will be decked in formal suits and dresses. Many a parent will bring along a camcorder to record down this pivotal milestone.

In an ideal world, I would have wanted my son to experience his first two years of education in Japan. I have come to terms with my decision to remain rooted in Singapore. But when my mother-in-law enquired about an entrance ceremony, I felt a poignant sense of longing. I would also have liked to experience this 節目　(the node on a bamboo shoot) firsthand with my son.

Today’s orientation incorporated a parent-child activity that necessitated the use of the Student Learning Space. We pragmatic Singaporeans surely get down to business, don’t we? As a teacher, I understand and fully approve of this move. Best to get parents involved right from the get-go. This included getting my child to come up with his own password and learn the ins and outs of navigating this digital learning platform. Note to self: I need to buy an iPad for my boy soon!

All I can say is that I’m grateful to have undergone the 入学式 during my stint with the Japan Exchange Teaching Programme. I hope that my son will grow up understanding that what he has gone through is just one but many ways of appreciating the world we live in.