It’s refreshing to see such an honest reflection on the realities of sharing creative work online. Too many writers get caught up in the pursuit of reach and engagement without considering whether these metrics actually serve their goals or their well-being. What you’ve demonstrated here is that the most meaningful outcomes come from direct and genuine interactions rather than chasing algorithmic approval.

One of the most important takeaways in your post is the distinction between building for platforms and building for people. When you rely on platform distribution you are always at the mercy of someone else’s business incentives which rarely align with your own. By focusing on places where your work is valued intrinsically rather than as a means to generate ad revenue for a corporation you create more durable connections and preserve your creative independence.

I also think your experience highlights an under-discussed truth. The internet is maturing into smaller more intentional communities rather than massive open networks. The days of going viral and converting that into sustainable success are largely over. Real value now lives in smaller engaged circles where trust is earned over time.