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It isn’t every day that I feel a surge of gratitude over my life situation.

Today was refreshingly different.

Marched out of school with my class of essays in tow, wanting to seek refuge in the air-conditioned comfort of the Kopitiam inside Khoo Teck Puat Hospital. (I had gained enough CrowdTask coins to get a free cup of coffee, which explained why I would walk all the way there.)

Received a message from the student care centre.
My son was complaining of pain in his lower tooth. He earlier complained of fatigue during his Chinese lesson. Maybe the pain he was experiencing made him feel sluggish.

My weary soul was pummeled by this unwelcome intrusion. Decided to eat properly first. But of course, I could not relax nonchalantly, so I made an appointment with the dental clinic.

Thank goodness they had an available slot at 3pm. Quickened my steps towards the student care centre after lunch, fetched the boy and hurriedly made our way to the clinic.

The dentist extracted his first milk tooth 🦷. So momentous! Soon my boy would be fully grown and funding my retirement! Remembered to take a photo or two for remembrance’s sake.

Went back home. Thank goodness the clinic was a stone’s throw away from my place. Resumed my marking of varied-effort compositions.

My eyes drooped. Fell into a nap.

Thank goodness I didn’t dream of my students’ work. Woke up. Resumed marking. Took photos and messaged three parents. It’s gonna take a village to make a child pass his PSLE. Messaged my weakest child. “Memorise ‘It was a scorching afternoon’ as your first line,” I implored firmly.

Wait? Such an eventful afternoon — and it was still before 6pm? I thank my lucky stars that the skeletal structure of my life is so well aligned that I can more or less proceed with my original plan in spite of emergencies that demand my attention. Nothing much to ask of life, really.

112 sats \ 1 reply \ @Scoresby 6h
Soon my boy would be fully grown and funding my retirement!

This made me chuckle! Is there a tradition of the tooth fairy in Singapore?

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Thanks! My favourite writing style is tongue-in-check. Glad to know that I succeeded with this one.

Not sure how prevalent this practice is, but my son took his tooth to bed tonight!

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Are there any traditions around tooth loss over there?

My daughter’s very eager to start losing her baby teeth. A few of her friends have already.

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116 sats \ 5 replies \ @Fenix 6h

The tradition I know around here is throwing your tooth onto the roof with your back turned while making a wish, probably so you don't have to give the kid any money.

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Portugal?

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Must be in Brazil. Over here, the tradition is you put the tooth under your pillow and make a wish, during the night the tooth fairy comes and grabs it!

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So, also no money involved

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At least where I’m from, there’s no money involved.

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5 sats \ 0 replies \ @Fenix 5h

Brazil

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5 sats \ 0 replies \ @milad 18m

Congrats on the milestone! 🦷

There's something special about finding those moments of gratitude amidst the chaos of work and parenting. That line about the "skeletal structure of life" being aligned really hit home. Sometimes that stability is the real wealth, more than any stack.

Hope the grading gets easier and the boy enjoys his tooth fairy money. Cheers to the village! 🍻

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I still remember the pain, I had during my childhood and visiting dentist for removing and cleaning. That was really a scary moment for me but dentist was really very friendly and made me comfortable. That moment which I'am always going to remember through out my life.... Lol 😬

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Hope the tooth fairy left him some sats!

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5 sats \ 0 replies \ @Fenix 6h

This fatherhood thing is great; every little thing that used to seem simple becomes a major event for the whole family. Even developing simple speech is a huge milestone. These stages of life show that we really don't know anything; everything is important depending on the eyes of the beholder.

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