I would zap him a few sats if I could easily see whether he has taken the trouble to attach a LN send and receive wallet but expect he has not as there is fuck all incentive to now that you have concealed wallet status by default.

There is less and less incentive for genuine Bitcoiners to join and participate in SNs using sats...and so the SNs economy is becoming increasingly saturated with inhouse CC tokens that are even worse than shitcoin- they have zero value outside of SNs.

Without input of sats (real money) SNs cannot ever achieve economic viability will surely die.

The privacy argument against attaching and showing wallets is pure BS - I can attach LN wallets without compromising my privacy and so can anyone else.