Things like Tailscale are on the edge of my know-how
afaik Tailscale mostly exists to eliminate needing a server with a public ip in a wireguard network/mesh (peers in your private network periodically reach out to the server so that peers know how to route to each other). From there, I think Tailscale also provides a number of other useful abstractions on top of wireguard like traditional forms of auth. Fundamentally you are trusting Tailscale with your metadata like other VPNs.
This sounds like it exploits nostr relays as public utilities for peer coordination, removing the need for a public IP or something like tailscale.
afaik Tailscale mostly exists to eliminate needing a server with a public ip in a wireguard network/mesh (peers in your private network periodically reach out to the server so that peers know how to route to each other). From there, I think Tailscale also provides a number of other useful abstractions on top of wireguard like traditional forms of auth. Fundamentally you are trusting Tailscale with your metadata like other VPNs.
This sounds like it exploits nostr relays as public utilities for peer coordination, removing the need for a public IP or something like tailscale.