I'm talking about just in general... I mean, at the end of the day, a guy died who blazed a trail for people who instead stayed in the closet. I think it is pretty vile to speak ill of the dead (with exceptions of truly vile people).
Yeah, in general I agree. There are exceptions we all have though. Decency is a victim of modern culture but it is also used as a shield for more vile behaviour.
You referring to SN or elsewhere?