There was a time when I was obsessed with privacy--used the Tor browser heavily, used a VPN with Mastodon. Now, I only use a VPN when I want to trade on OKX or Huobi or some other restricted exchange. I thought about switching to the Brave wallet when Metamask started logging IP address, but I never did. I freely report all of my crypto transactions to the IRS, so why would I want to hide my IP?
If a relayer wants to record my IP, they are welcome to it. :)