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Nor was it about cockroaches.

But it does matter a little what you choose to save.

The point is that you don't need to make a huge cosmic difference to have made a difference. Why should someone feel bad about having limits?

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Limits I accept.

Low limits I'd rather not.

Stupid problem is knowing where each is.

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Whatever your limits are is what they are. How does not accepting them help you? That just seems like living in a delusional state.

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The only way we come to know our limits is by not accepting them.

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Not imposing false limitations on yourself is not the same as not accepting true limitations once they're discovered.

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I don't always know the difference.

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Which is why I said "once they're discovered".

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But this just moves the problem from knowing the difference between real and imposed limits to knowing when they are discovered.

Of you have a manual for how to discover limits, please point in that direction.