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When I lived in Egypt in an expat zone, my neighbors were a Dutch/Italian couple. Their kids spoke 4 languages (Arabic (local), English (what parents speak), Dutch (mom), Italian (dad)) and according to those for those that could judge their language that I couldn't, they were fluent in all 4.

Not all kids can do that though.

I was trilingual by the age of 10.
My brother (at around 7), on the other hand, struggled a lot with it and would mix words from each language into a sentence without realizing it.

At some point, his teacher asked my parents to agree on using one language at home and reserve the use of others (and then only those exclusively) to specific events or locations.
They never managed to uphold the discipline required for that, so we stuck to one language from there on out.

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mix words from each language into a sentence without realizing it

I still do that today. I'll just be talking casually and be like... wait, what did I just say? haha.

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hahha I do that from time to time.

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Also, some words are quite difficult or almost impossible to translate into other languages.

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Love to see kids like this! it would be really interesting to see how they feel about themselves, like, do they feel more Arab or more Dutch/Italian.

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Remembering how it went there back then, they will probably always feel a bit outsider. There's a big religious barrier and from what I hear it only got broader. However, I traveled a lot in my teens due to parents' work myself and I most often just don't feel the tribal roots thing that much; I expect that to be similar for them and I expect them to travel. They're coming of age now, so it'd be interesting to find out what's what.

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I know it’s possible, if the parents are really committed to the effort and/or there’s a lot of exposure to the languages being spoken natively.

It’s something that has to be whole-assed though.

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