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Yes! Just frigging ask and at least entertain that they aren't lying about what they think.

I tell people that I'll stop responding to them if they tell me what my motivations are a second time. It's extremely off-putting.

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I'm personally not that strict but I do feel that same way. I also appreciate it if people tell me I assumed wrong.

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It does depend on the tenor of the discussion. If they aren't being a dick, I'll be more forgiving.

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